During Hari Raya Aidiladha last weekend, me, hubby and in-laws went to the lovely Penang! ye, saye adalah sedikit peghak sebab tak pernah pergi to Penang in my adult days... hehehe.. it was a fun trip coz we went food hunting! sara + food = happiness!! but i do not wanna talk about the trip now... all i want to tell is about public toilets and our civic mentality...
after about ten hours of pusing2 makan angin in Penang, we decided to call the day off and go home.. on the way, we stopped at R&R Gunung Semanggol for our jamak prayers and of course small trip to the loo! so, i went alone to the toilet and i saw one MALAY lady coming out from the toilet... well, i thot mesti toilet ni bersih sebab pompuan ni masuk n dia sure flush the pump... so, I dengan berani gagah perkasanya masuk dgn condifent...
sekali jenguk kat dlm toilet bowl.... jeng jeng jeng!!! &%$%#*@^@&$% ISSSHHHH!! rasa nak kuar balik n marah pompuan tu plis!!! rasa mcm nak cakap, "cik, kenapa tak gheti flush toilet??? kat umah awak guna jamban lubang yg kena gali tiap2 kali buang air ke??? ke, mak awak tak pernah ajar flush toilet and keep clean????"
look, Malaysians... mcm mana kita ni nak dipandang mulia oleh orang lain kalau personal hygiene pun sucks tahap cipan???? plus, Malay plak tu, definitely Islam la sebab dia pakai tudung.... OMG!! malu n marah n frustrated dengan this kind of behaviour... kita selalu kata, kalau che ye nun alif masuk toilet mesti tak flush... so, jangan la terkejut.... sebab agama diorang tak ajar kot... but kita as muslim, macam mana bole tergamak mengotorkan public toilet yg full with facility?? nak kata takde air ke, takde hos ke, jamban rosak ke, jauh sekali... tapi, sifat PEMALAS n PENGOTOR tahap cipan manusia2 jenis ni yg sangat memalukan! i feel disgusted!
my mum selalu ajar, masuk toilet pls flush properly... kalau ada saki baki sisa2 bahan kumbahan anda, sila amik air n jirus... sampai hilang... kang ada plak satu hamba abdi awak ke yg nak masuk tolong cucikan ur residue?? satu lagi sifat huduh kita Malaysians is "takpe, cleaner ada.. memang keje dia" mak datok!! cantik muka hang ingat cleaners tu keje dia nak tolong flushkan toilet untuk hang ka??? apsal kita jadi mcm ni?? salah mak bapak ke? ke salah diri sendiri??
to me, it all comes back to you.. if u have that civic minded, then u wouldn't behave like orang hulu yg tak gheti guna tandas awam.... so frens, are you one of those uncivic minded people??
-disgusted-
Sunday, November 29, 2009
Monday, November 16, 2009
Feelings Update
hmm.... i think i want to start updating my feelings status about stuff that's happening in my life... because we as human beings do not have only one feeling about all the things happening in our daily life, isn't it??
SUBJECT & FEELINGS
1. work = like it, so far
2. work place = nice and no stress.. well, it's not all perfect but i can live with that
3. parents = ok, they are happy coz they just got back from singapore.. whenever they're happy and do not bug me that much, i'm gud!
4. hubby = miss him superbly!
5. James = belting berbunyi dgn kuat lagi.. susah hati coz warranty is expiring soon... in two weeks to be exact!
6. road to office = lancar = NO STRESS!~
7. babies = hmm... still thinking about it sometimes.. but not really obsessed about having any at the moment..
8. frens = miss most of them, but everybody's got their own lives, anyway!
9. toll rm7.80 sehari = still not a problem to me... i would rather pay the toll than being stuck in the traffic!~
10. mohamad redza = rindu sangat, plis!
11. weight = is starting to worry me... i should go for futsal, shouldn't i??? but by the time i reach home, all i see is the bed...
12. my face = full of acne scars... gotta start using that miracle water again!
13. year end shut down = i can't wait!
SUBJECT & FEELINGS
1. work = like it, so far
2. work place = nice and no stress.. well, it's not all perfect but i can live with that
3. parents = ok, they are happy coz they just got back from singapore.. whenever they're happy and do not bug me that much, i'm gud!
4. hubby = miss him superbly!
5. James = belting berbunyi dgn kuat lagi.. susah hati coz warranty is expiring soon... in two weeks to be exact!
6. road to office = lancar = NO STRESS!~
7. babies = hmm... still thinking about it sometimes.. but not really obsessed about having any at the moment..
8. frens = miss most of them, but everybody's got their own lives, anyway!
9. toll rm7.80 sehari = still not a problem to me... i would rather pay the toll than being stuck in the traffic!~
10. mohamad redza = rindu sangat, plis!
11. weight = is starting to worry me... i should go for futsal, shouldn't i??? but by the time i reach home, all i see is the bed...
12. my face = full of acne scars... gotta start using that miracle water again!
13. year end shut down = i can't wait!
Wednesday, November 4, 2009
Hidup Berjiran
hari ni aku nak gossip... sambil bergossip ni, it also works as a reminder to all of us out there (including me) about adab sopan hidup berjiran..... i live in Pasir Gudang for almost a year now... n alhamdulillah, we have 2 very nice immediate neighbours kiri n kanan rumah sewa we all ni... belah kiri is a young couple, sebaya dgn we all, ayu n awie with their adorable twin babies, syakira n zulaikha..... belah kanan pulak, a chinese family yg aku tak penah tau nama derang apa, but they are in fact, very nice people as well.... (esp mak the chinese lady tu... banyak cakap! heheh...) so, i call them "Cina sebelah"... they have two boys n one girl... anak pompuan dia sangat comeyyy.. mcm anak patung... dia cuma gheti babai kat aku every time we all terserempak.. yg lain2, aku cakap melayu, dia balas mandarin... aku cakap english, dia bantai mandarin gak.. last2, aku give up! hehe...
rumah yg we all duduk ni, somehow ada sangat low absorption of noise or bunyi... so, kadang2 jiran2 dua-tiga pintu away buat apa pun boleh dengar sampai our house.. but, since tak pernah mengganggu tido malamku, nevermind! sebelah kanan rumah Cina sebelah ni adalah rumah sewa budak2 bujang (BBB) yg keje kat MMHE n sime... basically derang ni duduk menyewa rumah tu utk tido malam je.... macam biasa, bile ada rumah sewa bujang around our house, memang la banyak kerenahnya...
selalunya BBB ni belasah main karaoke sepanjang hari... kadang2 aku dengar pukul 9 pagi dah start... agaknya derang keje shift kot... takpe laa.. since aku pun memang kaki karaoke, i could understand that they need to sing eventho suara mengalahkan katak puru.... Cina sebelah ni pun kadang2 bile datang angin dia, belasah lagu techno kuat2 waktu tengahari.... kadang2 sampai ke maghrib... tapi, aku still bole tolerate sebab rumah aku ni mmg nipis dindingnya, so i can't expect more, right? janji tak bising tengah malam, sudah...
nak dijadikan cerita, semalam lepas lunch (yg aku masak ayam penyet tuuu) aku dgn redza tengah melayan tv citer apa entah, sekali redza bangun... n he said, "Polis..." aku buat deeekkk je laa... alaa... mcm la tak biasa polis come by and say hie to the people.... (walaupun itu di luar batas normal sebenarnya.... tapi sebab aku malas nak layan laki aku yg tetiba bzbodi, aku bo-layan laa) n yes, betul aku nampak polis tengah berbual2 dgn Cina sebelah... (masa tu ada bini dia, mak dia, adik dia.. mak n adik dia dtg visiting jee.. tak tinggal sini) makin lama, makin kuat.... last2 aku mute-kan tv utk mendengar butiran lanjut.... tapi still cannot catch up with what's going on....
then, i told redza, "takpe, kang i tanya mak dia... mak dia banyak cakap... kang sure dia bagitau.. hehe" n redza said, "now sape yg bzbodi??" hahahaha.... anyway, aku tak dapat bercakap dgn mak dia lepas tu... hinggalah hari ni bila aku jumpa bini cina sebelah kat luar..... mak pun apa lagi nyah, gossiping leee....
well, sebenarnya polis semalam datang to ask them betul ke derang ada potong tali ponco yg cover kereta BBB..... ok, situasi: BBB pasang ponco biru belang2 kat rumah derang as an extended porch to cover up their car... tali ponco tu diikat kat pagar bahagian rumah cina sebelah... satu hari, itu tali sudah putus sebab ponco tu bukannya kuat pun... dah la dua-tiga hari ni hujan lebat... dah sah2 air hujan akan bertakung n menyebabkan tali ponco tu putus! now, BBB sudah accuse Cina sebelah's wife of cutting the ropes... N DIA REPORT POLIS! OMG!!!!
ada banyak kebodohan ala2 orang terencat akal jugak pada si BBB ni...
1) there are two pieces of ponco... yg tak teguh base nya n di-selotape di tengah2 dgn duct tape n just stupidly tied to a fence... so, kenapa expect benda tu perform mcm REAL porch?? duct tape tu kena air 2-3 titik terus hilang gam nya cik abang ooii!
2) derang ni keje MMHE n Sime Darby.. so im sure they are not some school drop-outs yg bodoh lagi maha sengal
3) kalau kereta dia Ferrari ke, Porsche ke, ala.... takyah jauh laa... VIOS ke, aku bole la paham nape kereta tu wajib diteduhkan.... tapi, ni setakat WAJA buruk tin milo aku tendangpun bole berlubang tu, tak payah la nak beriye2 sangat kan! kalau tak suka basah, simpan kat kampung! (FYI, derang ni pegi keje naik motor, keta simpan kat umah buat bawak balik kampung or jalan jauh je or nak pick up minah kilang yang bersepah kat PG ni)
4) tak payah la sampai nak report polis kan..... nampak sangat tak macho!
so, the police came to chat with Cina sebelah n of course Cina sebelah's wife told the officer the real story... masa benda tu putus, bini Cina sebelah balik kampung... mcm mana dia nak pegi potong tali tu??? ADUIIIII..... yg paling best, BBB tak berani kuar rumah bile polis datang rumah derang.... tau pulak takut! sebab polis pun cakap, "buat malu je hal kecik mcm ni nak gaduh... 1 malaysia ke ni??" plus, derang sangkut ponco tu mcm tu sebenarnya illegal... mana bole taruk extension haram mcm tu... sebenarnya PBT bole saman derang.... ish! dah la memburukkan pemandangan... kalau utk sementara, like for kenduri or something takpe jugak....
aku ni dari tadi dok chat2 dgn bini Cina sebelah, mcm2 la dia komen.... dia pun pelik... orang Melayu ISLAM buat mcm ni.... dia siap kata, " ini mcm terrorist" hmmm.... mcm mana eh? macam mana kita sebagai orang Islam nak convince orang agama lain utk hormat n faham religion kita kalau ada DUNGU2 seumpama BBB ni di merata2.... cuba citer sikit.... fakta yg aku tak bole blah lagi ialah, BBB hanya menyewa... n Cina sebelah ni beli rumah ni... tapi, kenapa BBB yg berlagak besar kepala sangat kat sini?? kalau bapak aku, neighbour penyewa buat hal, dia pegi sound direct je.... "awak tu menyewa, buat cara menyewa..."
so, moral of the story is, kita ni orang Islam yg patutnya menunjukkan contoh teladan yg baik pada orang non-muslims... Islam pun ada mengajar kita adab sopan dalam berjiran... even nak renovate rumah kalau sampai menghalang angin ke rumah jiran pun tak bole, apatah lagi menuduh melulu sampai repot polis..... lagi satu, kita menyewa bermaksud kita bukan la pemilik mutlak property tu... maknanya kita kena hormatkan the people who actually own the property.... masuk kandang kambing, meng-embek.... kita bukan nak duduk sini lama pun.... sabar sikit tak bole ke??
i always feel this has got to do with upbringing and inner-self-bringing jugak... kadang2 sekolah pandai2 pun kalau dah memang perangai mengalahkan orang primitif, tak guna jugak! orang mcm ni patut buat rumah kat tengah2 hutan duduk sorang2 takde jiran.... sebab duduk bermasyarakat kat taman perumahan yg cantik pun mcm kera, baik tak payah, kan! i suggest, gi duduk dalam gua lagi baik! so, tell me.... nak buat mcm mana dengan dungu2 mcm ni? kita selalu kata orang Cina kiasu, kiasu.... tapi, in this case, siapa yg kiasu? pk la sendiri... adakah kita pun ada unsur2 BBB dalam diri kita??
-jiran yg tak paham-
rumah yg we all duduk ni, somehow ada sangat low absorption of noise or bunyi... so, kadang2 jiran2 dua-tiga pintu away buat apa pun boleh dengar sampai our house.. but, since tak pernah mengganggu tido malamku, nevermind! sebelah kanan rumah Cina sebelah ni adalah rumah sewa budak2 bujang (BBB) yg keje kat MMHE n sime... basically derang ni duduk menyewa rumah tu utk tido malam je.... macam biasa, bile ada rumah sewa bujang around our house, memang la banyak kerenahnya...
selalunya BBB ni belasah main karaoke sepanjang hari... kadang2 aku dengar pukul 9 pagi dah start... agaknya derang keje shift kot... takpe laa.. since aku pun memang kaki karaoke, i could understand that they need to sing eventho suara mengalahkan katak puru.... Cina sebelah ni pun kadang2 bile datang angin dia, belasah lagu techno kuat2 waktu tengahari.... kadang2 sampai ke maghrib... tapi, aku still bole tolerate sebab rumah aku ni mmg nipis dindingnya, so i can't expect more, right? janji tak bising tengah malam, sudah...
nak dijadikan cerita, semalam lepas lunch (yg aku masak ayam penyet tuuu) aku dgn redza tengah melayan tv citer apa entah, sekali redza bangun... n he said, "Polis..." aku buat deeekkk je laa... alaa... mcm la tak biasa polis come by and say hie to the people.... (walaupun itu di luar batas normal sebenarnya.... tapi sebab aku malas nak layan laki aku yg tetiba bzbodi, aku bo-layan laa) n yes, betul aku nampak polis tengah berbual2 dgn Cina sebelah... (masa tu ada bini dia, mak dia, adik dia.. mak n adik dia dtg visiting jee.. tak tinggal sini) makin lama, makin kuat.... last2 aku mute-kan tv utk mendengar butiran lanjut.... tapi still cannot catch up with what's going on....
then, i told redza, "takpe, kang i tanya mak dia... mak dia banyak cakap... kang sure dia bagitau.. hehe" n redza said, "now sape yg bzbodi??" hahahaha.... anyway, aku tak dapat bercakap dgn mak dia lepas tu... hinggalah hari ni bila aku jumpa bini cina sebelah kat luar..... mak pun apa lagi nyah, gossiping leee....
well, sebenarnya polis semalam datang to ask them betul ke derang ada potong tali ponco yg cover kereta BBB..... ok, situasi: BBB pasang ponco biru belang2 kat rumah derang as an extended porch to cover up their car... tali ponco tu diikat kat pagar bahagian rumah cina sebelah... satu hari, itu tali sudah putus sebab ponco tu bukannya kuat pun... dah la dua-tiga hari ni hujan lebat... dah sah2 air hujan akan bertakung n menyebabkan tali ponco tu putus! now, BBB sudah accuse Cina sebelah's wife of cutting the ropes... N DIA REPORT POLIS! OMG!!!!
ada banyak kebodohan ala2 orang terencat akal jugak pada si BBB ni...
1) there are two pieces of ponco... yg tak teguh base nya n di-selotape di tengah2 dgn duct tape n just stupidly tied to a fence... so, kenapa expect benda tu perform mcm REAL porch?? duct tape tu kena air 2-3 titik terus hilang gam nya cik abang ooii!
2) derang ni keje MMHE n Sime Darby.. so im sure they are not some school drop-outs yg bodoh lagi maha sengal
3) kalau kereta dia Ferrari ke, Porsche ke, ala.... takyah jauh laa... VIOS ke, aku bole la paham nape kereta tu wajib diteduhkan.... tapi, ni setakat WAJA buruk tin milo aku tendangpun bole berlubang tu, tak payah la nak beriye2 sangat kan! kalau tak suka basah, simpan kat kampung! (FYI, derang ni pegi keje naik motor, keta simpan kat umah buat bawak balik kampung or jalan jauh je or nak pick up minah kilang yang bersepah kat PG ni)
4) tak payah la sampai nak report polis kan..... nampak sangat tak macho!
so, the police came to chat with Cina sebelah n of course Cina sebelah's wife told the officer the real story... masa benda tu putus, bini Cina sebelah balik kampung... mcm mana dia nak pegi potong tali tu??? ADUIIIII..... yg paling best, BBB tak berani kuar rumah bile polis datang rumah derang.... tau pulak takut! sebab polis pun cakap, "buat malu je hal kecik mcm ni nak gaduh... 1 malaysia ke ni??" plus, derang sangkut ponco tu mcm tu sebenarnya illegal... mana bole taruk extension haram mcm tu... sebenarnya PBT bole saman derang.... ish! dah la memburukkan pemandangan... kalau utk sementara, like for kenduri or something takpe jugak....
aku ni dari tadi dok chat2 dgn bini Cina sebelah, mcm2 la dia komen.... dia pun pelik... orang Melayu ISLAM buat mcm ni.... dia siap kata, " ini mcm terrorist" hmmm.... mcm mana eh? macam mana kita sebagai orang Islam nak convince orang agama lain utk hormat n faham religion kita kalau ada DUNGU2 seumpama BBB ni di merata2.... cuba citer sikit.... fakta yg aku tak bole blah lagi ialah, BBB hanya menyewa... n Cina sebelah ni beli rumah ni... tapi, kenapa BBB yg berlagak besar kepala sangat kat sini?? kalau bapak aku, neighbour penyewa buat hal, dia pegi sound direct je.... "awak tu menyewa, buat cara menyewa..."
so, moral of the story is, kita ni orang Islam yg patutnya menunjukkan contoh teladan yg baik pada orang non-muslims... Islam pun ada mengajar kita adab sopan dalam berjiran... even nak renovate rumah kalau sampai menghalang angin ke rumah jiran pun tak bole, apatah lagi menuduh melulu sampai repot polis..... lagi satu, kita menyewa bermaksud kita bukan la pemilik mutlak property tu... maknanya kita kena hormatkan the people who actually own the property.... masuk kandang kambing, meng-embek.... kita bukan nak duduk sini lama pun.... sabar sikit tak bole ke??
i always feel this has got to do with upbringing and inner-self-bringing jugak... kadang2 sekolah pandai2 pun kalau dah memang perangai mengalahkan orang primitif, tak guna jugak! orang mcm ni patut buat rumah kat tengah2 hutan duduk sorang2 takde jiran.... sebab duduk bermasyarakat kat taman perumahan yg cantik pun mcm kera, baik tak payah, kan! i suggest, gi duduk dalam gua lagi baik! so, tell me.... nak buat mcm mana dengan dungu2 mcm ni? kita selalu kata orang Cina kiasu, kiasu.... tapi, in this case, siapa yg kiasu? pk la sendiri... adakah kita pun ada unsur2 BBB dalam diri kita??
-jiran yg tak paham-
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